[Kabar-indonesia] Dozens of Javanese girls forced into prostitution [+JP: Sexual democracy]
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Wed Aug 2 03:01:58 MDT 2006
also: JP Op-Ed by Julia Suryakusuma: Sexual democracy:
Variety is the basis of life
Dozens of girls become victims of trafficking
CIANJUR, West Java, Aug. 2 (Antara): At least 60 girls from Cianjur
regency, West Java, have been trafficked to Batam island in Riau
province and forced into prostitution there, a legislative councillor
said Wednesday.
The secretary to the Cianjur Legislative Council's Commission VI for
people's welfare, Rina Mardiyah, said that figure was based on a survey
of a number of nightspots on Batam, which is located close to Singapore.
She said girls from Cianjur were found working in many Batam nightspots.
They said they were forced into prostitution after being deceived by
employment recruitment companies.
Rina said one 16-year-old girl was sold for Rp 4 million (US$439.56) by
an employment recruiter to an entertainment center in Batam. The girl
said the recruiter told her that she would be employed in Jakarta.
"But later the girl was sent to Batam (as a sex worker)," he was quoted
by Antara news agency as saying.
Rina said Cianjur councillors attempted to take the girls employed in
Batam back to Cianjur, but many refused to go home because they
were too ashamed to face their families.
The coordinator of the Cianjur chapter of the Indonesian Women's
Political Caucus, Titin Suastini, urged the Cianjur regency to take
immediate action to stop the trafficking of women.
She said a number of entertainment centers in the Puncak resort
area were reportedly centers for the selling of women. "The
administration and police have to actively disclose such practices,"
she said.
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The Jakarta Post
Wednesday, August 2, 2006
Op-Ed
Sexual democracy: Variety is the basis of life
Julia Suryakusuma, Jakarta
Earlier this year, I was invited by my old friend Dede Oetomo, Indonesia's
most respected gay activist, to teach at a course on gender and sexuality in
Surabaya. The course was conducted by GAYa Nusantara, an organization working for
the sexual health of gay men, transgenders and male sex workers, which he
co-founded. Recently the organization expanded into research and education but it
has always been active in public advocacy.
The course covered a wide range of topics related to gender and sexuality,
from sexual diversity, pleasure, prostitution and the sex industry, to media
representation, religion, human rights and health and reproduction. I was asked
to teach on my area of expertise -- gender, sexuality and the state -- which I
have worked on since the mid-1980s.
I have been involved in countless public lectures, seminars and workshops,
but none anywhere near as colorful, unique and inspiring as the GAYa Nusantara
event. The 22 participants consisted of 10 men, 11 women and one waria
(wanita-pria, literally, female-male, sometimes also referred to as transvestite or
transsexual).
Professionally, the participants included NGO activists, psychologists,
teachers, lecturers, health workers and one writer. There was a participant from
Muhammadiyah, a Catholic marriage counselor and a gay theology student. About
half were straight (some married) and the rest were a variety of sexual
orientations, including one who was still questioning her sexual identity.
There were four male gays (one who performs in drag shows, another a devout
Catholic), two ODHAs (orang dengan HIV/AIDS -- people living with HIV/AIDS) one
of whom was bisexual, and a number of gender transgressives, or transgenders.
These are people who don't conform to the sex assigned to them at birth.
Transgenders are neither male nor female. They are a sort of third sex and include
transsexuals and cross-dressers. They are consciously androgynous, and may be
intersexed, maybe not.
Confused? Don't worry, because I'm not really dealing with technicalities
here, but more the colorful diversity and the extraordinary atmosphere of
openness, tolerance and acceptance that I found so wonderfully embodied in the
course.
People who are normally considered marginal, and sometimes outcasts were on
an equal footing -- and in equal number too, therefore, not a minority -- to
those who were sexually "mainstream". They were in fact, the most outspoken, no
doubt because in "normal" society, they are outnumbered and often don't get a
chance to voice their views or feelings. The discussion sessions -- informal,
with a lot of camaraderie and laughter -- were sincere, open and sometimes
very touching.
Our sexuality is at the core of our identities, so its repression is very
painful and can even "kill" a person. The bisexual participant spoke of how torn
he was between his sexual leaning and his loyalty to and love of his family (a
wife and a young child), whom he lived with and supported. He had only
recently admitted publicly that he was HIV positive and wore a T-shirt announcing
it. He pretended to be nonchalant about his condition, but you could sense his
suffering.
Every lecturer was asked to choose a film to illustrate her/his topic, to aid
discussion. I chose The Stepford Wives, about a fictional town in American
suburbia, where the geeky male inhabitants transform their wives, some
originally very independent, into mindless, docile housewives and (sex)slaves by
planting microchips in their brains. The reason for my choice was Stepford's
similarity to Dharma Wanita, the civil servants' wives association, which in
Soeharto's New Order epitomized the ideal Indonesian woman -- a meek appendage to her
husband, which idealizes dependence.
I said that in fact, we are all Stepford wives to some degree, as we are all
programmed for ideological, political, cultural, religious and sexual
intolerance. So few of us can be true to ourselves because the "microchips" planted in
our minds and hearts from when we were small created stereotyping,
discrimination and outright bigotry -- including toward the sexual identity of others.
This is one of the reasons why Indonesia is so often wracked with violence and
crimes of prejudice.
The reality is that there have always been diverse sexual and gender
identities in Indonesia, just as there have always been diverse racial, ethnic,
religious, cultural, social, political, ideological identities and orientations. Our
motto is "unity in diversity", but what we have had for a long time, and
increasingly so, is fragmentation, including ethically and spiritually.
The gender and sexuality course impressed me because it was one of the rare
occasions on which I have ever encountered in Indonesia a real sense of unity
amid very obvious diversity. And it is disappointing that I had to go to the
margins to escape the fractured, conflict-laden fragmentation that is our
bigoted mainstream today.
But this is all wrong. Very wrong. As I sat in Dede's course, I couldn't help
thinking of the Koranic injunctions to tolerance -- even celebration -- of
difference, as God-given. These verses cite the diversity of humanity, its
tongues and colors, as evidence of God's wonder (30:22). They even state that
mankind was scattered by God "into nations and tribes" specifically "so that you
might come to know one another" (49:13).
It is sad beyond measure that what we are drawing from our hard-won
democratization is more fragmentation and increasing religious and ethnic conflict. We
don't want to know each other and are using our God-given differences to
inspire hate and division. Religion should be a basis for overcoming division, not
for creating it.
So what's the solution? Perhaps our religious and political leaders should
all just go and do a week of study with Dede and his gang of guys, girls and
guy-girls. Who knows, some of them might like it more than they expect!
The writer is the author of Sex, Power and Nation. She can be contacted at
jsuryakusuma at mac.com and jskusuma at dnet.net.id.
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